Tough Love Passive-Aggression Challenge: Week One

May 08, 2025

This week, we kick off the Tough Love Passive-Aggression Challenge by diving into:
🔎 What exactly passive-aggression is
🧠 Where it comes from
📖 How it was once even labeled a personality disorder (seriously)

All you need to do this week?

🎧 Watch (or listen to!) this 13-minute video below

💡 Hot tip: You don’t need to watch the slides—feel free to listen like a podcast while doing chores.

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