The Tough Love Self-Care Challenge

The Tough Love Self-Care Challenge is Back!

In 2017, I had an idea: could I get 25 people to join me in a challenge about self-care—the real kind? Not the cute, Instagrammable version, but the kind that’s messy, unglamorous, and necessary.

Spoiler: it took off. Over the years, it grew, evolved, and by 2022, hundreds had completed it—some multiple times.

Now, it’s back for 2025.

So, what is the Tough Love Self-Care Challenge?

It’s a series of deceptively simple steps that transform how you take care of yourself.

Here’s what you’ll do:
✅ Make a list
✅ Draw some boxes
✅ Draw some lines
✅ Write a letter

Sounds almost too simple, right? I get it. But this challenge has changed my life—and the lives of hundreds of others.

When do we start?

📅 March 1—the perfect time, because Venus Retrograde is the ultimate moment for a positive life shake-up.

How long does it take?

⏳ Just 2.5 hours total over 10 days.
I designed this as a single, neurodivergent, self-employed mom—so trust me, it won’t eat up your time.

What’s the cost?

💌 Everyone gets the emails.
💎 Paid subscribers get more:

• Deep-dive videos & worksheets
• Tarot readings
• Templates
• A live call
• And more surprises!

For a limited time, you can try it FREE. 🎉
🔗 Grab a 30-day free trial of a paid subscription to The Sursie and get exclusive access to everything above.

🚀 Sign up, start the challenge, and see what happens.
(If it’s not for you, just cancel before 30 days. But I bet you’ll want to stay 😉)

👉 Upgrade now and join us!